Some Incredible Moments of Life

Some people take life as a burden, some take as opportunity. Situations are same, events are same but some enjoy others frown.

In essence, life is not a burden. There are ample moments in life that you can cherish. 

The company of righteous people makes the life more liveable and enjoyable

The moment when knowledge dawns in you, confidence reflects from your mere presence..That is the moment when you feel more liberated of your small mind

Either favorable time or hard time in life, but if you don't loose your awareness..That is the moment when you are totally in the present moment and enjoy the life at fullest 

When you are able to keep a full stop on the modulations of your mind, can maintain undying smile despite all the problems...That is the moment when you become inspiration for others to live the life

When you can accept yourself as well as others despite having lots of weaknesses and conflicts, when you can see beyond the person/object/situation...That is the moment you start living life hassle free

The moment when you get an attitude of being always ready for service, you start living a useful and purposeful life

Learn to show dynamism at outer layer but be very dispassionate at your inner core. Become like a lotus flower, which is born in mud, remains in mud but mud can never touch it. 

Be happy, keep serving with undying smile and become an instrument of love

The fear of getting the right match

When we pass the teenage and goes into the stage of adulthood, we become physically and mentally ready for marriage. But one fear about getting the right prospect for marriage start bothering.
In India, we mainly follow concept of arranged marriage. Family play a big role in introducing the boy and the girl. First the family meet and then both the prospects meet for quite a short duration and in that short duration they decide that weather they are ready to live whole life with other person or not. If yes, then they fall in love instantly else they may postpone or deny it. It may seem very odd process for some culture but that is how the things are here.
In India, marriage is not only the unification of two person rather its unification of two families. Two family becomes one big family. So they decide, weather they want to be together or not.
Still we have so many requirement for our prospects. It is said that marriages happens in heaven. So some one is made for you in the heaven and we meet that person on the earth and merry them.
But the main problem is to recognize that person. The problem is not that we don't find anyone, the problem is we find many such and get confused on whom to choose.
Who will be more suitable. Some may match with your Kundali. Some may match with your nature. Some understand your feelings, some keeps you in your comfort zone. Some are traditional, some are typical, some are conservative, some are more open, some are easy to believe on, some are hard to refuse, some rocks, some sucks. And we look for the perfect match. made in heaven type of match.

But if we really want to choose the best. We can close our eyes and choose any one of them. I tell you the real secret of relationship. A boy and a girl in a relationship are like two parallel lines. They should not be like two lines pointing towards each other. Means the focus of one person should not be towards other person always because pointing line matches at one time and then again separates out. whereas the parallel lines always go together and meets at infinity. So if both girl and boy have a common goal for society, for themselves or anything. This common goal motivates them, keeps them busy and they keep the love alive and fresh always. Love blossoms, flourishes and give fragrence to others.

The fear dies when love blossoms

Oh, Come on....

What fear do you have, its all in your mind.

The fear of what people think of you, what they say if you do this and that.
Oh, Come on....They have the same fear

The fear of people make fun of you, people would laugh on your silly questions.
Oh, Come on....At least, you will be a reason to make them laugh.

The fear of some mistakes, some wrong deeds which can affect your future/relationships.
Oh, Come on....mistakes never happens intentionally. If it happens then learn from it and forget it.

Just put all your fears in one basket and surrender to divine. The fear is nothing but lack of love, When love flourishes, there is no fear. When you go from darkness to the light, the love flourishes and fear diminishes in life.

Lets put the mind on 2nd place

After studying and then working for so many years, these technical mind always entangles into the technicality of the object.
When its in nature, instead enjoying the beauty, it tries to count the trees, it looks for different species. When its in social gathering, it involves in some rubbish discussion or search another such pair, which can do technical bla bla to keep the mind busy....Lets keep aside these so called technical part of the body and start enjoying things by heart. 
When the mind enjoys a sunny day, it sees it as hot temperature, but the same is seen as a warmth by the heart. when the mind is in relationship, you ask for love but when heart is in relationship, you become instrument of love. So let the heart lead the way and keep mind on second place.

How do I see my life?

When I look back, I see my life as a flowing river. Like a river flows in one direction, which ever path it gets, it flows. My life is also the same. Flowing with its own pace, in one direction. This flowing thing is life energy: my prana.

When I look back, I see my life as a steady mountain, strong and firm. Like a mountain is very solid and stable similarly something in me is very stable and not changing. Something in me is unshaken. This unshaken thing is faith.

When I look back, I see my life as a calm and peaceful lake. The water in the lake is very peaceful. It has very serene environment around the lake similarly my life is very peaceful and serene. The outer attachments does not affect me. I am untouched by them.

When I look back, I see my life as a vast sky. The vastness of the sky shelters everything - rivers, trees, mountains, deserts everything. Similarly my life shelters many relations. It has many responsibilities and wears different coats at different times.

But in reality, life is above these all. It is neither river nor mountain nor lake nor sky. It is all energy which is pervading in different forms at different times. Life has a different taste and flavors at different times. We should only know how to channelize these energy in the right direction and than you see that the life becomes like a blossoming lotus and an instrument of love :)

Memorable time in BA

Back to India...but this time not for vacation but with some vision. Last one month was so amazing. So many good memories, so much love and affection. For now I dont know the purpose of mine coming back to India but I know, I will realise very soon. The trasition from Netherlands to India was so perfect that I am sure that there is definetely somethings for me waiting here. Every events were happening like some well planned. My contract ending on 1st March, than exactly getting 28 days for leaving the country, coming of Guruji on 22nd March, my interview scheduled on 21st March. It was like there was someone walking in front of me and clearing my road and I know who :)
The last day in Eindhoven also became memorable thanks to Beda, Bala, Aashish, Rajiv and Ashwin. It was great night we spent together. Now I feel more determined to share this love with people.
The memories of last few weeks I spent in BA is very precious for me. Those moments when I met Guruji, the moment when I applied chandan on his forehead, the time spent with lovely people specially Gabi, Manish, Su, Emanuele, Aura, Vestina....etc I will never forget.
I hope, I could again go back to BA for some more time and meet these people again :)

Here are some of the memories.....:)

Promise

If I had to promise you something, what would it be?

I cant promise that you would always be comfortable...because comfort brings boredom and discomfort.

I cant promise that all your desires will be fullfilled...because desires weather fullfilled or unfullfilled brings frustration.

I cant promise that there will always be good times...because it is the tough times that make us appreciate joy.

I cant promise that we will be rich or famous or powerful....becaue they can be all pathways to misrey.

I cant promise that we will always be together...becaue it is seperation that makes togetherness so wonderfull.

Yet if you are willing to walk with me.
If you are willing to value love over everything else.

I promise this will be the most rich and fullfilling life possible.
I promise your life will be an eternal celebration, i promise you I will cherish you more than a king cherishes his crown. And I shall love you more than a mother loves her newborn.

If you are willing to walk into my arms, If you are willing to live in my heart, you will find the one you have waited forever...you will meet yourself in my arms...

I promise...H.H. Sri Sri Ravishankar